My friend and highly respected colleague Tammy Kohl posted a great blog some time ago that I would like to share again with my readers as it timeless and may be of great value for reflection at the beginning of a year. Many of us take account, set new goals and establish “new year’s resolutions” for themselves. As I am passionate about the impact of attitude on our success it may be important to recognize that our belief (aka our thoughts) greatly influence our attitude. Consequently, if you master to manage your belief you have a good chance to master your attitude.
In the end what we believe or don’t believe becomes our personal reality!
I hope you enjoy the article and I look forward to your comments and thoughts:
“Many people are familiar with Yoda, a very wise Jedi Master from Star Wars, who was charged to train Luke Skywalker in how to use his “force.” This quote is from the scene where Luke was trying to mentally, by using his ‘force,’ pull his plane from the muck of a swamp. Luke told Yoda he would try and he failed.
A very influential mentor of mine used to say time and time again. “There is no A for effort in business.” I grew up like many with the belief that trying my best was good enough. However, I have learned in 25 years of business that there is a strong connection between these two quotes. “There is no A for effort” really means it is all about the results you achieve and it is not about the attempt and to Yoda’s point, trying is merely an attempt.
In order to accomplish results and excel at what you do, you must have the skills but more importantly you need to believe you can do it. Trying is a self-limiting belief. After Luke attempted and failed, Yoda used his “force” to save the plane. Luke watched in amazement and when Yoda was finished, Luke said to Yoda, “I don’t believe it.” and Yoda’s response was, “That is why you fail.”
Belief is powerful. When you believe you can achieve something no matter how challenging, big or small, you will commit to do what is necessary to make it happen. You will learn what you need to learn. You will commit whatever time is necessary and you will seek out qualified assistance when needed. Because your belief is so strong you will access whatever resources are necessary to make it happen and you will cross the finish line victorious.
An attitude of trying will never propel you to take the extra step because your measuring stick of “I tried” gives you permission to walk away based on what is believed to be a good enough effort. People and businesses often fall short due to this simple but powerful belief. I mentioned earlier that belief is powerful. Therefore whether you believe in mediocrity or results, you will achieve what you believe.
Yoda also told Luke to “unlearn what you have learned.” If you are used to “trying” unlearn your way into a new belief of achievement. Here are some ideas that may help you.
- Use positive affirmations and say them multiple times a day.
- Surround yourself with people who will positively reinforce your plan and push you to excel.
- Align with a coach to hold you accountable to your personal development.
- Find a mentor who has accomplished similar results to what you are looking for and become a sponge.
- Become a voracious learner.
- Surround yourself with positive messages.
- Disconnect from the naysayers in your life. Your success has nothing to do with their ‘I tried and can’t’ attitude so don’t let them hold you back.
Luke finally got it. So, when will you?”
Tammy A.S. Kohl is President of Resource Associates Corporation. RAC is the first choice among business professional for assistance in creating, building and expanding a successful consulting or coaching practice. RAC trained consultants and coaches specialize in helping businesses and individuals achieve high levels of excellence and success. Learn how at www.resourceassociatescorp.com or contact RAC directly at 800.799.6227